Monday 26 November 2012

Cuba holiday


Cuba day 1

Here we are in Cuba on our most recent adventure.  Some of this blog was written as it was happening and some of it retroactively. 
It's 17 November 2012 as I type this and we're sitting somewhere in old town Havana.
There are a few adventures that I haven't had time to write about and these will follow shortly.  In the meantime, I hope you enjoy our Cuba vacation.

We left Lethbridge this last Friday and drove up to Calgary.  Our flight for Cuba was only the next morning but we decided not to chance the snow gods and gave ourselves a little leeway in case we had a problem.
We arrived in Calgary a little later than expected and met Duncan, Chantal, Bump (Chantal's baby bump), Brenden and Jenn at a lekker pizzeria in downtown Calgary.  I don't want to go into too much detail about dinner but suffice to say that we had a delicious dinner with 4 fantastic people and got to know Brenden and Jenn a bit more (They are all great people!).  Brenden and Jenn have been to Cuba previously and we were excited to learn as much as we could from them.
After a fantastic dinner we had some of the best ice-cream that I have ever eaten and had a quick coffee at Brenden and Jenn's house before sorting out our bags at Duncan and Chantal's.
It was a really good night!  

So we set of from Duncs and Chan (and Bump) fairly early in the morning.  We have been crazy busy and had not really planned out our Cuba trip.  As such we were excited but a little nervous.  We knew that we wanted to stay in Havana the first night and we knew a little bit about the local currency and what type of accommodation is available but we (I) had left booking too late and we were flying blind on most things.

The flight to Cuba was a really interesting one.  The Visa for Cuba was included in our ticket and because we were flying in from Canada we did not have to supply any other documentation.  Adele and I had not been able to book seats next to each other.
I sat next to an accountant who was sick of, and did not care too much for Cuba (after 4 trips), and on the other side, a 60 year old who had been to Cuba a few times before and did not care too much for Raul or Fidel but loves Cuba.  Adele sat next to the 60 year old's friend and another lady who chatted and laughed with her throughout the flight (She turned out to be a professional body builder).  
I spent some of the flight reading about Cuba and trying to learn a little Spanish but most of the flight chatting to the really interesting 60 year old.  
I can tell you a lot about Helmut, the German Canadian, who moved to Canada at 21 and has lived in Montreal and then in British Columbia and then studied and practiced law in Calgary and the rest of Alberta.  I can tell you about him being engaged to a Peruvian women and then marrying a Pakistani women who hates warm weather and likes to read – with a library of 1600 books.  I can tell you why they never had kids and about the last time he went skiing and injured himself but I won't as I am sure you can tell Helmut was pretty chatty over the 5 hour and 15 minute flight.  It was pretty awesome.  He was an interesting old bugger and it made for a quick flight.  Interestingly his stories got longer, his tongue looser and he spilt more wine on himself as the flight progressed.
I also started reading, Life of Pi, on the plane.  I started reading it and had to stop after 5 pages.  I got a pen out of my bag and restarted it.  Within the first few pages I was absolutely hooked and I hope it turns out to be a good read. I love the way this man writes.

Interesting random Cuba fact I learnt on the flight:  Cubans sometimes make makeshift boats and try to leave Cuba for Florida.  The USA has a wet foot, dry foot policy.  If you can make it onto dry land in the US you are given asylum, if not then back you go to Cuba – crazy!
I think there are about 20 000 people who leave Cuba for the USA in this or some other way every year.

So after an enjoyable flight we arrived in Varadero, Cuba.  I had been unsure of how we were going to get to Havana when Pat, a Canadian from Drumheller, offered to share a cab to Havana.  We gratefully and thankfully accepted and waited for Pat in baggage claims after coming through the Cuban customs.  
We changed some Canadian dollars to Cuban pesos (CUC) and discovered that we were sharing our cab with a fourth Canadian.  Pat is a retired prison warden who now offers tours in the badlands of Drumheller and the other Canadian, a 42 year old, makes money working in the arctic and spends the rest of his time visiting his Cuban girlfriend of 2 years.  She is a physiotherapist and makes 16 dollars a month (holy crap).  All her friends are jealous of her Canadian boyfriend who leaves her 200 dollars when he goes home (More than a year's wages!).  This was not a scheduled trip for him, he had not told his girlfriend that he was coming and was going to surprise her. 
We had a great trip talking and laughing and they offered us tips on how to get around and not to get ripped off in Cuba.  

We had the name of a hotel which we had been unable to book online and headed there but they unfortunately had no space (Hotel Raquel).
We stood and waited for probably 45 minutes while the receptionist called around trying to find us a hotel or a Casa to spend the night in.  Old town Havana seemed to be really booked up and we had no cooking clue what was going on. (This was also after not getting too much sleep the week before while trying to get ready (15 hours in 3 days for me)).  
Happily the receptionist eventually found us accommodation and we were led to a Casa particulaire (a local bed and breakfast) where we rented a room for 30 dollars a night.  
We had quite a few laughs trying to communicate with the very nice owner, Jesus, (who does not speak a word of English) and kindly showed us to a lovely restaurant where we had our first Cuban Mohitos and second round of beers (The first round of beers was at a roadside stall on the way to Havana in the taxi).
When we arrived we watched Cubans in the building across from us dancing and doing the salsa.
Our room is on the top floor and has a communal rooftop patio just off it which looks out over the city.  This city is so alive and vibrant, we love it so far!

After dinner we walked through town a bit and I think we ended up getting conned out of some money buying one of the locals a drink.  I'll go into that more if you ask me but it was really not an unpleasant experience (In a country where the average wage is 15 dollars a month, I am pretty sure the gringos who no hablo espanol look like nice fat cows to the locals).  

I am currently sitting on the roof of our casa typing out this blog.  We have no clue where we will end up tomorrow or where we will sleep but I have been thoroughly impressed and intrigued by Cuba.  We have walked around a bit now, can't communicate really well with the locals but feel completely safe.  
Jesus has just stumbled in and just asked me for our payment for tomorrow.  I'm not sure if this means he is going to stumble off to another bar but I really hope that he remembers that we have paid.
There is so much more detail I could add in but that essentially sums up Cuba day 1.  I am tired and the bed calls to me in Spanish words that I don't understand.
Hopefully I will be able to find an internet cafe and post this, adios until tomorrow.

Cuba day 2

We both slept very well after a long and tiring day of travel and excitement.  I had stayed up until 2 am writing out yesterday's blog while a tired Adele, undisturbed by me coming to bed late, had a deep and wonderful sleep.
I vaguely remember the slow hum of cars and people starting in the morning and the sun spilling into our room.  A dog barking and a child running, happily down the street finally woke me at about 8-30 and we both got up to start our day and have some breakfast.
The night before the hotel owner had stumbled up to our room, while I was blogging, and asked for his payment for night one.  He'd also told me breakfast was free the next morning (when initially he'd said there would be a minimal charge).  The free breakfast reverted back to the cheap breakfast and I really hope when we check out tomorrow that there are no misunderstandings.  This is really a wonderful, safe place to get lost in.
Breakfast was fresh fruit and an egg on a roll.  It was actually pretty good and we tried to chat and learn new words with the cook (The owner's mother).  She is warm and friendly and, as with most Cubans we have met in our short stay so far, is very nice and welcoming.
She has a wide, time weathered smile and it seems to me that she is constantly musing on these crazy gringo's.
(I would find it very interesting to ask each and every cuban what they thought of the tourists.  On one hand we are a source of income in a poor country and on the other hand we come into their country like we own it and throw ridiculous amounts of money around without blinking (have I mentioned doctors earn less than taxi drivers here +- 30 dollars per month).)

After breakfast we decided to stay in our Casa for another night instead of lugging our bags around Havana.  Both Jesus and his mother warned me to hold onto my camera and gestured that it might be ripped from my hands but, honestly, I felt 100 percent safe walking around with a backpack full of camera gear and a thick wallet in my pocket.
We walked along the touristy Obispo road with it's bars and music and tourists.  We were offered cheap cigars, food, taxi tours, dance lessons – all the best in Cuba – by multiple Cubans.  After a while we found that by saying we had eaten or already bought cigars they would finally give up with a smile and wish us luck, hinting that they would be around for the next time.
At the one end of Obispo we spent some time walking around the Plaza de Armas with it's grand spanish architecture and the multitude of second hand book stores.  
After the Plaza de Armes we walked down to the Plaza de San Francisco and then to the plaza Vieja.
The plaza San Francisco was quite a wide and open plaza with a beautiful 16th Century Basilica on it's South end.  Apparently there is a really good view from the Basilica's tower but unfortunately it was closed.  The Plaza Vieja is another magnificent plaza and used to be the main plaza in Havana before other Plazas like the Plaza de Armas and Plaza de la Catedral became more popular.    I really like this plaza and plan to come back to drink beer in Havana's only brew pub.
From there we walked back up to the Plaza de Armas and decided to check out the Castillo de la Real Fuerza – the oldest surviving fort in the western hemisphere.  It was originally built to protect against pirates but was too far inside the bay and was abandoned to become accommodation for important Cubans.  It is surrounded by a clover leaf moat, has thick walls, is lined by Canons and is definitely worth the 3 dollar cover charge (supposedly 5 if you want to take pictures but the employees there told us not to worry – they reclaimed the extra 2 dollars a little further into the visit).  So we spent a good while looking through the fort.  All the displays were in spanish but we soon were met by a well spoken Cuban lady who told us many stories and explained to us what all the treasures were.  She was excellent and definitely earned the 2 dollars that she collected in the corner of the room where she had angled us away from the cameras.  2 rooms down the same thing happened.  This time with a lady who did not speak any English but spoke Spanish in a way that Adele and I seemed to understand almost perfectly (this may have been because the previous lady had explained some of the same material).  She was also excellent and also earned herself 2 cuban convertible pesos, also away from any surveillance.
At this stage we felt museum'd out and checked out the roof of the fort before going in search of some water or a cold beer.  
We found some water and made our way to the Plaza de la Catedral where we sat for a while and marveled at the spectacular Catedral.  It is truly a beautiful piece of devoted architecture and definitely worth a visit.
From here we sat down at a restaurant, people watched and read up a bit more on Cuba.  We drank Bucanero and Crystal cervezas, both excellent local beers.  They also had a live band playing which was ridiculously good.  We settled into a second beer and idled away a little bit of the afternoon as the band marinaded us and the alcohol serenaded us into a raw and happy place.
After the band we had tasty pastries – 3 pie like sandwiches for about 2 dollars - delicious!!!
The thing about Havana is that there is music everywhere and it is really good.  You'll walk past a restaurant and people will spill out into the street dancing and having a good time.  It is really a fun place to visit (If you start to mull over the economic disparity between yourself and your server - remember to have another beer and to tip really well – they really appreciate it).

After this we decided to have an afternoon siesta.  We relaxed, snoozed and read in our casa before we left for our evening adventure.  (Despite this not being the hottest time of the year, it is still pretty hot at the peak of the day and we were thankful for our room's air conditioner).
Our evening walk took us the other way down the Obispo road and past the Capital building (magnificent) and the parque central.  All around Cuba there are wonderful old cars.  Some in really good condition and some that look wise and aged, and some that look aged and crippled.  Some pur as they drive past and others snort, growl and choke as they gasp for life with the artificial parts of Russian cars and other homemade fixes keeping them alive.  Apparently this may change due to newer laws so if you like old, vintage cars then come to Cuba soon.  (But as long as there is tourism there will probably be vintage cars so don't worry too much).
We walked past the capital and into central Havana.  Our plan was to walk up to the Malecon and try to find another Casa for the following night (There is nothing wrong with our Casa but we felt it would be nice to stay in another location).
The Cuban architecture is rich and varied.  Some building are painted and are in good condition but a lot of them are faded, their paint is peeling and they look pretty run down.  Adele and I both commented that some of the looked like they had been bombed and that in some places it looked like the ruins of war rather than a bustling Capital city (I guess internal wars are what has led to this).  (Apparently it is not unheard of for some of these building to quietly implode with their occupants).  What it leaves you with, though, is a mosaic of building styles and levels of decay that is very appealing to the senses and the camera.  It is incredibly hard to walk through Cuba without your camera pushed firmly to your eye - there is always a photo opportunity although we were wary not to photograph anyone who didn't want to be photographed or looked like they may be touting black market rum or cigars.
Anyway, we walked up central Havana and as we went we looked into the casas along the way to ask if they had any room.  We probably looked at about 5 or 6 casas.  What was amazing is that every casa looked like an absolute dive on the outside but on the inside there was a variety of accommodation.  Some casas being fairly spartan while others were fancy and rivaled any sort of 5 star South African or Canadian accommodation (for 30 dollars!!!!).  If you come to Havana book a hotel or a Casa for the first night but then go looking for accommodation on the second day (Not in peak season though or you may find yourself a bit stuck) – take this day as a part of your Havana experience (You learn a lot about the people and get to meet all sort of interesting Casa owners), it will be well worth it.  
One of the last casas we walked past looked pretty disheveled on the outside but we peaked in through the window and found a Swiss lady sitting and reading on a nice big couch facing the window.  This casa is owned by Andres who was very friendly and co-opted the Swiss lady into translating for us.  Suffice to say that this casa was much nicer and the same price as our previous Casa and we decided, after a walk and dinner, to take it for the next night.
That night we walked along the Malecon (A boardwalk along the Sea on the Northern end of Havana) and decided to eat at a place call Castropolis.
We were offered upstairs or downstairs and we opted for upstairs – which turned out to be the tourist section.
Even though we were seated in the tourist section we found the food cheaper and better than the food we'd had in old Havana the night before.  Adele had Uruguayian steak and I had fish that crumbled and oozed with delicious flavors.  We had our first Cuban coffee which was super strong and super delicious and has definitely added to my red bush of chest hair (Move aside Connery :) )
The wine and food was fantastic and it was truly a wonderful meal.  Fancy, pansy with the waiter not touching any of our cutlery and serving us like royalty (but still super cheap).
After the meal we committed to the casa and then walked back to our “old” casa along the Paseo del Prado which is a wonderful tree lined walkway with marble benches and wonderful statues.  Apparently it used to be where rich bureaucrats used to sit and muse their days away.  At night and during the day it is a lively walkway and a good spot to watch the vintage cars on either side.
It was a lovely evening and we had a wonderful day in Havana.  A lot more street smart, our appreciation for this interesting place had grown ten fold.
The rest of the evening was spent reading – the “life of pi” is a wonderful book and I find the writing style relaxed and inspiring.
I blogged until my battery died and we were happy that our only decision for tomorrow was where to spend the next 6 nights of our holiday!

I had almost forgotten to mention that we had awoken that morning to find an Irish man on the  rooftop patio.  He was very friendly and had explained to us how they had spent 4 days in Cuba before doing anything touristy (They had spent 4 days partying).  Later that day we saw them drinking a good breakfast, having much of the same for lunch and then stumbling in at 22h30 to the Casa with a very small Cuban lady in tow.  A different experience to ours but, still, they were having fun and, although rat faced for the entire time that we saw them, they were completely safe in Havana.  He also told us another story about one of his travel mates that had forgotten his toothbrush.  He asked somebody randomly if they could help him find a toothbrush and the guy arrived 30 minutes later with a, only barely, partly used toothbrush.
(The Canadian with the Cuban girlfriend had also said that before she'd met him she had only ever brushed her teeth with baking soda so if you come to cuba buy a big bag of toothpaste or toothbrushes or soap at Costco and bring them with.  Also bring old clothes that you would have thrown or given away and give them to your Cuban hosts- they will be overjoyed and it will make your stay infinitely better.)


Day 3

Today we woke in the morning to a quick and short burst of rain.  At first we were not sure if we were hearing the wind or something else because we opened our door to a beautiful day but after getting up the clouds rolled in and it started raining again.  It was a hard rain but it was still warm and short, and we seemed to be the only people equipped with rain jackets.  Cubans and tourists alike looked out from corners, doorways and nooks as Adele and I splashed our way down Obispo and to the bakery that we had found the day before.  
We bought a few delicious pastries and walked in the rain through the Plaza de Armas and then back to our “old” casa.
By the time we arrived at our casa the rain had stopped and we were completely dry.
We had thought about catching a taxi but decided to walk to our second casa which was not too far, in the central part of Havana near the Malecon.  
We off loaded our bags but did not linger too long at our new lodgings.  We walked back down to near the Capital building and found a hotel where we could find wifi for later.  The hotel, hotel Parque Central is a beautiful and grand hotel and is cheap compared to the price of hotels in Canada.  We bought a wifi card and decided to come back later with our laptop which was charging in our new casa (The old casa did not have the right plug points).
We spent the rest of the morning on the tourist bus which is hop on and off and cost us about 5 dollars each for a full day.  The tourist bus took us through some unexplored parts of Havana and to the Revolution square where we admired the Jose Marti memorial and took a lift to the top with views of Havana.  The revolutionary square was not that spectacular but we were happy to have seen it and tried to imagine the important place it has had in Cuban history.

After our morning trip we went back to the same restaurant, Castropolis, for lunch.  We decided to sit downstairs, in the public section, and had the best meal that we have had in Cuba.  We had delicious wood fired pizzas and multiple drinks between us for next to nothing.  It was fantastic and I recommend that, if you come to Cuba, that you come here and eat in both parts of their restaurant.
From here we walked back to our casa and picked up the charged laptop and went back to the hotel Parque Central to let our family know that we are safe and to book some of the rest of the holiday (We thought that we were coming in the low season but Havana has been fairly booked up and we worried we would not get accommodation anywhere else).
By this stage we had decided on spending a fourth night in Havana and then booking a few nights in Varadero where we would have the classic tourist version of Cuba (Maybe not the most authentic Cuba but we wanted to lie on a beach and get our tan on (or pink, blistery burn on – in my case)).
Anyhow we sat down at the hotel, ordered a few drinks and proceded to get some internet time.
Shortly after arriving we noticed the same Swiss girl, Michele walk in and we gestured a hello.  She is very nice and came over to say hi and then sat with us for the next 2 hours.  She has been in Cuba for 2 months learning to dance after quitting her job in Switzerland.  She is going from Cuba to Columbia for a month to meet her boyfriend and then she will return to Cuba.  After this she may move to New York or Toronto with her boyfriend and, as such, she picked our brains regarding Canada.  She was friendly and awesome and we both really liked her.  I hope she chooses Canada, I am in love with Canada and want everyone to see and love the same Canada that I do.
The evening involved more pickling and our first Cuban cigar in Cuba.  We sat there like Kings watching the other tourists come in and out as we smoked our Cigar.
After a lot of discussion we booked our last 3 nights for Varadero.  We have chosen a 5 star resort but it is all inclusive and we plan on spending our time just completely vegetating.  So now we have 4 nights booked in Havana and 3 nights in Varadero and one night in wherever land :)
After making sure the next few nights were sorted out we went back to our casa, dropped off our bags and went out for dinner.
We walked back to Old town through the Plaza de Cathedral and then to the Plaza Vieja.  We decided to have dinner at the brew pub where we drank really good beer, ate average food and enjoyed fantastic music at the hands of a local band that serenaded the Mexican table next to us (who sang and danced with the band).  The food was not great but the ambience was fantastic.
We had another drink on the way home at the Plaza de Catedral with another live band and met some Canadians from Quebec.
Another wonderful day!

And this was essentially day 3.  Back at the casa the owner's son poured me a few neat rums and I chatted and showed him pictures of Canada.  He told me a bit about the hotel and his family and it was a really good and fitting end to the night.  I blogged again for a bit before bed, chatted more to the Swiss girl and spent a good time musing on our wonderful experiences so far.
I love this holiday!  I love that we have time to read and explore and there is still time to have fun and blog and do a million other things.  The days are so full and wonderful – maybe it's also time to quit our jobs and come dance in Cuba for a month?!  Maybe not?!

On a side note.  Of interest is that Cuba has 2 currencies.  There are CUC – convertible pesos – which have the same value as the Canadian dollar and then there are CUP.  The CUP are Cuban pesos and 1 CUC is equivalent to about 24 CUP.  The locals spend more CUP and while the tourists are allowed to have both, most often use CUC.  Often something priced in CUP for locals will be charged in CUC for the tourist.  They also have strange values for their money with overlap between what is paper and coin money.  For example CUC have both coins in the 1 peso denomination and notes.  Sometimes tourists are ripped off receiving CUP instead of CUC for change.

Also interesting is that when we say we are South African this is often met with disbelief.  Some people point to their skin implying that we are the wrong color, some people say, “oh, Nelson Mandela,” and smile, thinking that they have endeared themselves enough or shown enough knowledge in your Country to make a quick buck off you.  
One Cuban presented himself by saying that we walked like South Africans and that he had not met any South Africans in Cuba before.  He said that his father worked as surgeon in South Africa but had essentially defected there.  He talked about Pretoria and Cape Town.  He seemed to genuinely have been in South Africa or had done his research.  If he was conning us, it was an incredibly smart con and entertaining.

And so ends day 3.  So far Cuba has been fantastic.  One more night in Havana and then wherever land and then 3 days of beach and all inclusiveness.  Life right now is fantastico, perfecto, wonderful!!!
Going to get some reading in and will catch you in the morning.

Day 4 – Havana, Cuba

We had another good sleep and had a very good breakfast at our Casa.  We sat with the Swiss girl, Michelle again, and chatted for a while.
She told us about a street market in Old Havana and when she left for dance lessons, we left for the market.

We walked though new parts of Havana and enjoyed the sights and smells.  We looked into rooms where people were cutting hair and walked past a few more salsa schools.  Small children waved at us from behind gates and older children played sports or smiled at us as they enjoyed their breaks from school.
After walking for a while we found the market on the East side of Havana near the dock.  It is a wonderful warehouse with goods wall to wall.  You can buy art or statues or humidors or any other number of touristy goods.  We spent a good hour or more walking up and down before eventually choosing a beautiful and unique piece of art (Which we then proceeded to forget in Havana- booooooo!!!!!).
We are definitely a lot more street smart now and a lot of people leave you alone instantly after finding out that you have been in Cuba for 4 days (Maybe as a tip – tell people you have been here for 4 days when you arrive).
We walked back from the market through more interesting streets. We found and had another delicious lunch and retired back to the hotel Parque Central for a few more drinks and some internet time.

That evening we took our books and sat on the Malecon watching people walk past.  There was a lot of local and Cuban foot traffic and was a perfect afternoon.  We watched the sun set and spent more time watching vintage cars driving up and down the Malecon.  
At one stage a man came up and chatted with us.  He'd been a taxi driver before an accident and seemed a little disillusioned with Cuba.  He was trying to find his wife and spent a little time pleasantly chatting with us.  We were both skeptical with his motives but he never asked for anything and it was a pleasant encounter.  It is so hard to know if someone is being friendly or if they are looking for a way to earn a few pesos (I would imagine that this could become tiring after a few months).  
Just after dark a group of musicians approached us.  They arrived and we immediately told them that they were welcome to sit with us but we did not have any pesos on us and if they played, we would not be able to tip them (No peso, no money, no dinero).  In any event, they started playing and singing.  Making up new words to Bob Marley and other songs.  Between each song they'd ask for a peso and we would say that we didn't have any (No peso, no dinero, no money).  They'd resume playing – trumpet and guitar.  We'd laugh and enjoy it and then kindly explain that we didn't have any money on us.  They were really good and it was really nice to be serenaded (and we genuinely had no money on us).  After a while they stopped, smiled and left.  Tomorrow we see you they said – an investment in tomorrow.

That night we had a delicious prawn pasta and fish dinner at our casa.  We ate with the Swiss girl again and chatted to the owner's son and his cousin.
The owners son is nicknamed the “little dog” in spanish because he is yappy and never sits still.  He is always dancing and moving and was a lot of fun to chat to. He is a salsa teacher.  They had lots of questions about X-Boxes and other things.  They have facebook and e-mail but it is illegal and requires a little wizardry and they are very eager to learn about other cultures.
The owner's cousin had a few tattoos (A full sleeve cost 70 dollars by an artist that spends 6 months in Canada and 6 months in Cuba.).  We compared tattoos in broken Spanish and English and it was fun communication. It always amazes me when you manage to communicate around common interests even when you don't understand each other through language.
After speaking with them for a while it became evident how hard it would be for them to leave Cuba and travel.  They will probably never experience snow and get to see the places that they watch on TV or hear about through other travelers (Adele and I are incredibly fortunate!).
The cousin summed it up well by gesturing that a spot on the table was Cuba and then he proceeded to create walls with his hand all around the island.
They also showed us their rations book which was interesting (it is a book that allows you to buy certain rations for next to nothing – although it has apparently become worse and less over the years).

We retired tired again but happy.  We loved Havana and I would recommend it to anyone.
If anyone would like the details of the second casa please let me know – stay there if you go, it is a wonderful place.

Day 5

We had another tasty breakfast with Michele while the “little dog” cooked, danced around us and entertained us.
Again, it was a wonderful stay and we were sad to leave.
After saying our goodbyes we walked down to the Malecon and then in the direction of old Havana until we found a nice looking Vintage car.
The driver drove us to neighboring Casablanca through some forest and down a winding hill past a giant statue of The Christ.  We discovered on arriving at the train stop that there is also a ferry from old Havana to the train stop which looks interesting and only takes a few minutes.  (We also sadly discovered that our painting was missing :( Hopefully we'll find a way to retrieve it).
The train sitting there was a bit rusty and looked unused.  I was convinced that there was another train coming but Adele was sure that this was the train, which it turned out to be.
We had a little time to kill and so we read and walked around for a bit.  We also chatted to some nice Londoners who were travelling around the whole of Cuba and had been to South Africa before on a motorbike trip.
After waiting for a little while we boarded the train and set off.  The train only cost 2.60 dollars (Much cheaper than a taxi) and took about 4 hours instead of 1,5 to Matanzas (The destination we had decided on the day before).  It was a slow train and ended up being a great experience.
We were the only tourists and as the train went from stop to stop more Cubans flooded on.  Adele and I tried to give up our seats for older Cubans but we were always declined and were given a fairly wide birth.
The Cubans had all sorts of branded gear with shirts from Canada and the UK and other familiar logos.  There were a few shirts from banks in Canada and I wonder how many of the clothes were donated by the tourism industry.
The conductor danced up and down the train punching tickets and greeted almost everyone with a hug and a kiss.  At times the train stopped and he jumped off to hug and greet a farmer (I guess the same people use the train often?).  I was invited up to the front of the train to take pictures where the driver sat proudly and posed for me.  Was a great vibe.
The passengers carried colorful birds in homemade cages or tools for working on farms.  Some sharpened their machettes which was, to be honest, a little disconcerting.  (Again though, we felt really safe the whole trip).
We spent a lot of time looking out the window and admiring the scenery.  It is a beautiful and lush country and it was interesting to see the farms and local life away from the city.  It was a slow and interesting way to get a different feel of Cuba and to see a bit of the bird life.  
We were both struck by the people who vary in color from black to colored to white yet all speak the same language and seem to have no hang ups about race (Love it!).
At one stage Adele played a game on her IPAD and got a lot of attention from the passengers nearby with some standing beside her and looking over her shoulder.
At the Hershey stop (Named after the famous Hershey who had a sugar mill there) we stopped and ate pompadom like things which were delicious and had a cooldrink.
At one point the train stopped for a while while everyone peered underneath and tried to fix something?!  Shortly after that part of the tracks were on fire but we drove through unperturbed and had an uneventful trip otherwise.

At the end of the train trip we had no cooking clue where we were going to spend the night.  Literally a few seconds after disembarking an elderly gentleman asked us if he could help us to some accommodation.  Now, as I have mention, there are a lot of people looking to make a buck off tourists and we were a little skeptical, but he had a kind demeanor, spoke very good english and we decided to put our trust in him.
He led us through Matanzas and to our casa for the night.  Along the way we talked about his family and life.  He was a very nice and interesting man who was a professor of Cuban history and now runs the Spanish Club in his spare time.
The casa he chose was really close to one of the rivers in Matanzas and has a rooftop view of the city. Matanzas was not as grand as Havana but we very much enjoyed walking through it.
We offered our guide a tip for his travels but he declined.  He was really happy to have shown us to the casa, which was really nice and cheaper than the casas in Havana.
The owner of the casa introduced us to his family and asked if we wanted to have lobster for dinner for 10 dollars each.  We eagerly agreed and set off for an evening walk along the river and through Matanzas, the city of bridges.  To say that everything fell perfectly into place this trip would not have been an understatement.  Everything worked out, we felt safe and we continued to enjoy Cuba and the Cubans more and more.
After walking through Matanzas for a while we decided that it was beer-o-clock and found a really nice local bar to have a few drinks.
We sat and enjoyed a few cervezas before 2 Cuban gentleman asked if they could join us.  We had no issue and they sat down, us both expecting some sort of proposition or invitation – it never came.  They both work in the hotel industry and we spent an interesting hour chatting to them about tourists, their jobs and wages.  The one gentleman was really interested in Canada, average wages, what tourists want etc.  it was almost like he was doing some market research so he could set up his own business.  They were both intelligent and shrewd and shared a lot of their feelings on Cuba and the money and the government.  It has been amazing to us the varied responses we have gotten when we have talked about this topic.  The overwhelming response was that Cuba doesn't quite work, people have minimal opportunities and that tourists do not see the real Cuba.  This was always followed by: but we have a really good education system and we do not pay for it and we have really good health care and, and ..... so it seems as if the Cuban people love their country but have a very ambivalent view of their reality.  We did not see more than 2 beggars, did not see one hungry face and never saw anyone reacting in anger.  We only saw happy, well fed, healthy people – Cuba may be broken in a lot of ways but it works really well in other ways.

After the cervezas we walked back to our casa for dinner.  We sat on the roof chatting about life and our plans while watching the last bits of the setting sun, sink on the horizon.  It was one of those wonderful moments and a memory I'd like to keep as vivid as it is now.
After a while our host came onto the roof and chatted to us for a while.  He was an engineer but earns a lot more in the tourism industry and so changed jobs.  He seemed to be a lot more pro Fidel than a lot of the people we had met, referring to him as a clever man, with good ideals.  He did mention that a doctor and an engineer should be working in their profession and not in a taxi or as a hotel owner.   Everything is upside down he said, but we are well educated and healthy (Again, some ambiguity).
As we were sitting on the roof a teenager randomly walked down the road with his friends practicing fire breathing and we watched him, getting a free show, for a while before going downstairs for dinner.  It was a perfect evening.
The dinner was fantastic, the company excellent.  The lobster was delicious and was followed by coffee and some tasty ice-cream.
The owner and his cousin were very attentive and we continued to share stories.  After dinner we shared pictures and more stories.  Adele and I (more me) were exhausted after the day and had a pretty early night.
We could not wait for the resort part of our trip the next day.  Our legs and feet ached from all the walking we had done this holiday and it was going to be nice to get our chillax on (More often than not we are exhausted after our holidays!).

Day 6 to 9

It's going to be easier for me to lump these last few days together.  I'm also not going to go into too much detail.  Apparently writing a bit of blog every day on holiday turns it into a 10 page document – no photos this time.  (You can find them on my facebook).
We had a delicious breakfast the next morning and chatted more to our historian from the day before.  He had come the previous night to speak to us but we were sleeping and he specially came to chat to us while we had breakfast.  Again, we had pleasant and interesting conversation and we asked each other many questions.  His daughter is a doctor and he says that she does it for love and not for the money (30 dollars a month), and I guess that the people who work in healthcare here must be a really passionate group.

After breakfast we said our goodbyes to another wonderful family and caught a taxi from Matanzas to our resort.  It was another old, vintage car and people piled in and out along the way as he picked up hitch hikers.
Along the way we went through a few road blocks and he was asked to stop and show papers before entering Varadero.  Varadero is very exclusive and not a place that Cubans can afford to holiday in.  It seems as if there is an effort from government not to let unnecessary cars into this area and I guess that they are protecting that exclusivity and tourism which generates a fair share of income for Cuba.
Our hotel was all inclusive and we checked in before relaxing by the pool and going for a swim.

And here started the absolute vegetation part of our holiday.
A typical day was getting up and working out in the gym, having breakfast and vegetating by the pool or going for a swim.  When hunger forced us out of our sun dazed, comatose state we would join the migration with the rest of the herd and graze ourselves on the lunch buffet.
After lunch there will be more sun tanning, reading and swimming, or relaxing in our room.
Dinner was either at the buffet or at one of the speciality restaurants that you had to book for.  One night we ate at a sushi restaurant and had pretty good sushi and teppenyaki.  Another evening was spent at the hilltop restaurant where we enjoyed more lobster.
Everything was all inclusive and we enjoyed not having to worry about anything.  The drinks and food was pretty good all round and we definitely caught up on ourselves.
The beach in front of the hotel had beautiful white sand and the water was clear and warm.  There was often some sort of hotel organized aerobics or stretching going on.
The pool was exquisite and we claimed a poolside bed each morning which we lazed on during the day.
It was all very indulgent and wonderful.  I got my massage on and we both managed to finish books.
I read a wonderful book called, “the giver” which is a must, must read.  The book has a lot to do with individuality and memories and I feel so privileged and lucky to have had the opportunities and memories that I treasure so much (Whenever I miss family and friends, I have so many memories which I can easily pull to mind and enjoy.  Thank you family and friends.  We love you).

And that was essentially our trip.
We have just had a quick and uneventful flight to Toronto and we fly to Calgary later tonight.
Going from plus temperatures to deep minuses is going to be a bit of a shock but I can't wait for Canada and snow and hopefully snowboarding this weekend.
Do yourself a favor and go to Cuba – you will not regret it!

All our love

Rooibaard and sexy legs

Thursday 30 August 2012

The longest blog ever - 5 months of adventure

When I started this I was sitting comfortably, looking out over the Indian ocean, watching rugby and enjoying a beer.  Life was and is good!
We where in Canon rocks, South Africa, Eastern Cape.  We'd just had an awesome 2 weeks with family and friends.  
Unfortunately that was in March and as I sit here, in Lethbridge, in August, I realize that I'm probably not going to be able to do the last 5 months its dues.  We have travelled far and wide and had many a wonderful experience with many fantastic people, I apologize if I do not do justice to the good times we have had together.  Enjoy this very long blog.  If you follow our adventures then I apologize for this being so late.

We left Lethbridge on the 8th of March fairly early in the am.  Steve and Jess had a flight that evening to Chilliwack and  they kindly offered to take us to the airport.  (Wherever we have stayed in the world we have always made a few really good friends.  Jess and Steve and Kaitlyn are definitely up there on that list.)  We had a fantastic time driving up to Calgary.  Adele and I had left our packing a bit late and so I had only gotten to bed at 4 am (I think we had an hour or 2 of sleep).  This was partly due to trying to get everything ready before we left and was partly tactical because I thought that being fatigued and sleeping on the plane would help with jetlag.
Anyway Steve and Jess and Adele (And Kaitlyn) had to put up with a tired, silly Ryan who had verbal diarrhea.  We laughed and chatted and had a great time.  Thank you Jess and Steve, we love you, you are awesome.
We got to the airport and had a few drinks together before we said goodbye. Then Adele and I were off, tired, a little tipsy but excited for 3 weeks of holiday in the motherland.

Usually on a flight I try to read a book.  I find completing the book on the flight almost as rewarding as the book.  This flight however we were both too tired and couldn't sleep (So much for the strategic sleep deprivation).  It was a long flight!
Adele and I spent most of the flight watching movies, listening to music and trying to sleep.
On KLM they have a premium economy and Adele and I had lucked out by getting a free upgrade with extra leg room.  
One trip across the Atlantic later we arrived in Schipol, Amsterdam.  We had a very short layover and then boarded our next flight home.  Was quite impressed with the Amsterdam airport.  It was one of the nicer airports that we have been to with lots of tulips, a bright and open feel, and a library.
On the next flight I decided to roofie myself -  I took half a sleeping pill.  Now I can't remember the last time I took a sleeping pill or if I have ever taken one.  The effect was quite alarming – I slept and slept and slept.  Now you're probably saying, “duh, Ryan, that's what sleeping pills do” but remember that we were arriving in SA at 10h30 pm and would be going to bed soon after arriving. Whenever I wanted to stay awake to read or to watch TV I'd have to force my eyes open, then 1 eyelid would shut and then the other.  I'd have to fight to keep one eye or both open.  It was like war.  Adele had a nice laugh at my expense as I tried to have a groggy conversation with her while alternating  eyes.  Adele also had a good sleep – this was a short flight for us.

Arrived in Capetown at  22h30.  My parents picked us up and it was lekker to see them.  Caught up and then drove back to Neal's place to say hi to Neal and Mary before trying to get some more sleep. 
Neal and Mary have a lovely house in Claremont.  It's a beautiful little house with a nice sized garden and a big beautiful tree in 1 corner.  The house has 2 bedrooms, a study, 2 bathrooms, a really nice open plan lounge and kitchen and a giant man cave (Neal's hobby area). My parents have also bought a house in Cape Town.  It is on the same street in Claremont. It has a kitchen, lounge, bedroom and bathroom.  It is perfect for them and the perfect lock up and go.
The area they are in has these small narrow streets, old and pretty houses and a ton of restaurants.  It seems like an awesome and very vibey place to live.
We arrived at Neal and Mary's house, got the tour, hugs and quick hellos. Then my parents dropped us off at the bed and breakfast that they had rented just around the corner.  We got our things ready and went to bed, having no difficulty falling asleep.  I guess that even though we slept on the plane, 23 hours of flying had done a job on us.

Derman street Cape Town

The next morning Adele and I woke up to the sound of Hadedas (birds) squawking overhead.  Hadedas have always had a place on Ryan's hitlist.  They are noisy, goldfish eating fiends.  I can remember them cleaning out all the goldfish in a pond we used to have in a house in JHB.  (Bloody Hadedas!!!)
This morning, however, their loud, brash voices made us feel, for the first time, that part of our souls were home.
Adele and I got up early and went for a walk around the neighborhood and to my parents house for a quick coffee.
Today was the day of Neal's bachelors and Mary's staget so after our quick coffee we made our way back to the B&B, got ready for the day and waited for my Dad to collect me for the bachelors.  Adele spent the day with my mom and Mary.

So here we are with the dilemma.  This is where I got to about 6 months ago.  The rest of this blog is based on memory and hearsay and a little Voodoo, which is to say, a little sketchiness.

My Dad picked me up and then went on to pick up Neal and Roderick, Neal's oldest and best friend.  Neal and Roderick used to attend scouts together and we've been family friends for as long as I can remember.  Many a story that I can't tell you involve old Roddy – he's a good guy.
We drove from Cape Town to Robertson where the bachelors was to be held.
Now I'd like to take credit for Neal's bachelors but to be honest all the credit needs to go to my mom and dad.  I was getting incredibly stressed about it, was struggling to make contact with accommodations and was not sure what to do.  Neal had wanted a chilled bachelors somewhere out in the sticks where we could braai and chill and have fun with friends.  My Dad and Mom came through with flying colors and helped put it together and subsidized large parts of the day.
We started our day off at Robertson backpackers where we were shuttled to the Breede river for river rafting.  The rafting was not too hectic with only grade 1 rapids but Neal has a great group of friends who quickly started having fun and joking around.
There where 2 people per raft.  Some were a lot better than others at co-ordinating their paddling and often someone was witnessed to be going backwards or turning slowly in circles.  Neal and Rod encountered this problem a few times.  The boat that my Dad and I rowed also had a few problems.  The person at the front end of the boat is supposed to paddle and the person at the back is supposed to steer (or maybe the other way round), in any event we both paddled and we both steered.  We went straight but it was not pretty.
There was also some pirating, people jumping from boat to boat, a lot of splashing, more going in circles, tackling, swimming, some birding, some lunch.  All the while having great views of spectacular trees and mountains.  Neal really does have a great group of guys to hang out with.
From Robertson backpackers we went to Narina guest farm just outside Robertson.  
We stayed on a very pretty little farm with a couple of rustic group accommodations down by the river.  We had a braai area and a kitchen and we were sorted.
Neal's friends Pas and Kevin had organized a keg with some gentleman jack beer and we quickly went about trying to pour a beer with perfect head, repeatedly, nom nom....
We also unpacked all the alcohol that we had brought and had a perfect little bar.  
We spent the rest of the day relaxing and chatting, swimming and having fun.
That night we lit a fire and had a most amazing barbecue.  One thing that I miss a lot is the wood fire culture in South Africa.  Having access to these amazing, remote locations, braaing and enjoying being outside is fantastic.  I think we're going to have to make our own wood braai culture here in Canada.
It was really great to spend time with my brother and my dad whom I love so much.  It was also great to spent time and chat with Rod, Neal's other friends that I know and to get to meet the ones I know by reputation.  The night was perfect and either a full moon or almost a full moon so we stayed up late around the fire or lying on the grass and looking at the sky.  I think (hope) that it was what Neal wanted – had a great time.
Other highlights for me of that night was seeing a giant eagle owl at moonlight and going for a moonlight walk with my dad.
The property boasted a lynx and riverine rabbit but we were not lucky enough to see them – a good reason to visit again.
The next morning we got up and had the remaining beer.  We also made the most insane breakfast that I have ever seen – a mans breakfast :)  Will post a few pics below.
So we enjoyed a really great weekend and everyone left full and happy, ready for Neal and Mary's wedding the next weekend.


My little brother

Dad

Mans breakfast

Eggs?

Mans breakfast

About to go for a paddle

Fun on the Breede

On the way back and from Cape Town it struck me how beautiful yet how alien the landscape and sky looked.  Now we'd only been in Canada for a year and a half but have spent a lot of time in the Rockies and it was interesting to me how your point of view can shift in such a small space of time.
On the way there and back we stopped at a gas station and Roderick (Teaching English in Korea) and I treated ourselves to pies and biltong whenever we could.  Pies are sweet things in Canada, not the wonderful meaty treats we have in South Africa, and we make biltong from time to time but it works better in winter when the basement is drier, so it was a luxury to be able to buy it at a gas station.
One thing that Adele and I noticed is how much the price of food and petrol has increased since we left South Africa.  It is still cheaper than Canada but not much.  Crazy!

That night we went back to Cape Town and spent the night with Enzo and Claire and their 2 kiddies.  We braaied and Adele had not had a good braai up to this point, we both thoroughly enjoyed it.  I became friends with Enzo when his now wife, Claire, was pregnant.  It is the first friend that I've visited in the hospital just after having a baby and it was the first little person that I have ever seen, closely, grow up throughout their first year.  As such I've always felt close to this wonderful family.  I think of Enzo like a brother and miss him a lot.  Rachael is so big and cute now.  They also have a brand new fella, Aiden, and it was very cute to see Rachael doting over her baby brother.  They have 2 dogs, a beautiful home and a good life.  We enjoyed good food, great wine (chocolate block) and some premium Klipdrift gold Brandy.
Was a great visit.

Gorgeous Rachael 
Enzo and Aiden
Claire
For the rest of the week we tried to see as many friends as we could.  Unfortunately we missed a few really good friends but we tried our best to get everything in.
We were very lucky to stay in a bed and breakfast which was attached to a wonderful little restaurant, just walking distance from my brother and parents.  Each morning we were accompanied by a different friend or group of friends or family member.  Both our and Mary's family frequented the same restaurant so there was always a large table of us laughing and enjoying each other's company.
We enjoyed breakfast with Gis and Karl.  Gis is one of Adele's best friends and we were both in the wedding party at Gis and Riegardt wedding.  They are friends that we don't see or speak to enough but always manage to kick off where we ended.  Karl is their young son.  He is a very handsome little guy and I had lots of fun walking up and down in the park with him while Adele and Gis caught up.  He is a good cuddler.
Handsome Karl
Adele and Gis

We also had breakfast one morning with Kimi from Barberton.  We had such an amazing year in Barberton and Kimi is a wonderful, happy character.  At the moment she's working and doing an MBA.  Kim is always game for some fun, is a wonderful friend and we always love seeing Kimi.

Kimi
Mark and Michael joined us for another breakfast.  I didn't know Mark that well.  He is my best friend's cousin and we've met a few times.  I have always liked him and at the time we saw him, he was preparing to come to Canada with his husband, Michael (We had only met Michael once).  Now they are here in Canada with us and we know them a lot better, but that's for later.  They picked our brain about Canada and we shared as many tips as we could think of.


On other days we had wonderful big lunches and dinners with family and family friends.  One day we enjoyed a mexican feast with the Macleods (Roderick's parents).

Pat, Brian, Mary and Helen
Mom 
Dad
Another night we also enjoyed a tasty Mexican fare and delicious Margaritas with Riegardt and Gis in downtown Cape Town.  Again, we don't get to see or chat to these wonderful people enough.
Another memorable dinner was at Wakami – a popular restaurant at seapoint.  We had dinner with my good school friend and his girlfriend, Chris and Danny.  We had a wonderful meal of sushi and fish with brilliant views of the Atlantic ocean.  Again, had lots of laughs, caught up and just had another great evening.
Prior to the dinner we had got there a bit early and had decided to walk along the sea point promontory.  Was a perfect afternoon and there was lots of street traffic and a gorgeous sunset.  We rounded one corner however and were caught of guard by a stray wave which absolutely soaked us.  We had been dressed pretty neatly and by the time we got to the restaurant we were wet and looking a bit haggard.  Was a trendy restaurant and we thought it was pretty funny.  
Another night Adele and I drove to Kalk bay and had a date.  We had mussels and calamari and enjoyed another great setting sun and romantic atmosphere.  We had a pretty busy week and it was really nice to spend a little one on one time with each other.
Cape Town is a great city and it was lekker to be there.

Seapoint
Chris
Dani
I loved spending time with Neal during our week in Cape Town.  On the one night we went to their local climbing gym.  (Neal and Mary have really done a good job at creating a great lifestyle in Cape Town, friends, nature and fitness are up there on their priorities, and rock climbing has become a favorite).  Spent a few hours trying to stay on the wall.  Unfortunately it's not as easy, lifting my 100 +kg frame, as it was in school but I tried.
Neal and Rehan went up and down like monkeys.  Dangling and hanging upside down.  Was a lot of fun and a great way to spend time with my brother.
Neal and I also enjoyed a massage together and a haircut.  I had actually had a haircut before but had another one to get a scalp massage.  Hair was a bit butchered but the scalp massage was worth it :)

Adele and I also tried to help out where we could.  We mowed their grass, picked up leaves, helped with the menu's (Adele), putting their wedding puzzle together (Adele) and helped wash their cat.
Their diseased feline had a little bit of a tinea problem – maybe not the happiest cat I've ever seen getting a bath (Also the first cat I've ever seen get a bath).

Unhappy cat
Help me
A few days before the wedding we went to the venue and had a walk around.  It's a lovely wine farm, albeit a bit hot on this day.  We walked through the vineyard and through a bamboo forest to the spot they were to get married and then past a stream and through another forest.  
Was a lovely day and we topped it off drinking delicious Solms delta sparkling Shiraz under the large trees and umbrellas, looking out over the vines.  Was a great day.

Bamboo forest
Solms delta
Other than that we helped do some shelving at my Mom and Dad's new house.  This was by far the most comical of all our errands.  Neal, myself and my Dad put a few shelves up.  An unamed older Derman thought it'd be a good idea to put up the shelves by himself, much to Adele's bemusement.  A bit of sweat, a few tears and a good amount of swearing later the other 2 Dermans helped and we managed to get the task done.  The shelf is on the wall and perfect for all manor of things that don't roll down an incline.  Doing something with 3 people who each has their own idea on how it should be done was a lot of fun.
Other than that Adele and I enjoyed some retail therapy at the waterfront and Claremont.
South Africa is definitely more expensive than we remembered!

And that was pretty much it for our week in Cape Town.
On the Friday we had the official wedding.  It was in a beautiful church near Neal and Mary's house.  It was mainly attended by family and a few close friends.
Neal was a little nervous but I have a wonderful memory of him looking really, really happy and content.  
I was the photographer for this part of the wedding so it went by pretty quickly for me.  Neal and Mary were smartly dressed but also really comfortable.  It was a great service and was really magical.
Mary and her father walked down the isle smiling and laughing.  I think Brian also shed a tear or 2.  Was a special day.
After the ceremony we went back to Neal and Mary's house and enjoyed those happy staples – wine, cheese and good company.

Chapel Wedding


Having a laugh post wedding
The night after the service Adele and I split up.  Adele went to Franschoek with Mary and the bridesmaids.
I got to hang out with Neal's friends and groomsman.  We had delicious ribs, played games, drank beer and talked about all sorts of silliness.  Was really nice to be able to spend time with him and to share in a few laughs with some of his favorite people.

The next day we got up a little late, got ready and had a late breakfast together.
Neal was looking a bit nervous, maybe more nervous than the day before but also eager and happy.
We drove to Franschoek, had a few glasses of wine under the trees again and walked through the vineyards, bamboo forest and to the site of their ceremonial wedding.
It was a near perfect day and the bamboo bumped and hummed and whistled with a gentle breeze that kept everyone cool and happy.
This wedding was held between the bamboo forest and the other forest next to a dam with a small island on it.
We waited with our backs to the dam as Mary came out of the bamboo forest looking gorgeous.  Both Neal and Mary were so happy.  They had officially been married the day before but this was so much more special for me.  The day before I had been trying to get some great pictures of them and when you look through a lens it doesn't always feel like you have been to or participated in an event.  Today was more real and the realisation that my bother was to get married to someone who I've viewed as a sister for years was amazing and overwhelming.
It is a special experience to stand up next to your brother and watch him pledge his love and life to another person.
Mary's brother, John, was the master of ceremonies and delivered a wonderful and heartwarming speech.
Again, it was a perfect day and a wonderful wedding.

After the ceremony the photographer took a gazillion photos.  Mary's family is pretty dang huge and there were a million different combinations of pictures.
The groomsmen and bridesmaids went onto the island after this and took a few more photographs with some champagne.   The rest of the guests went to another area near the stream and enjoyed a few cocktails and good company.

After the excitement of the ceremony, (Which was not too long and not too short and just right) we all went back up to the main vineyard area.  We went by foot and tractor to a large Bedouin tent that they'd hired.  The company had actually delivered the wrong tent the day before and had somehow managed to modify it before the big day (I think that this was probably the biggest stress that Neal and Mary had to deal with – not a stressful wedding).  
We sat at a wonderful, fun table.
We had a delicious assortment of tappas, some more wine and enjoyed custom M and M's with Neal and Mary's names on them.
Roderick – Neal's master of ceremonies, oldest friend and best friend kept us entertained.  He's a quirky, fun, interesting, sometimes strange, wonderful guy and had us laughing with his antics and commentary.  We had all been wearing sandals for the wedding and it was great to feel the grass under our feet while we drank, chatted and laughed together.
For the mains we had a lamb or a veg dish – both delicious.
I gave a speech which was probably one of the most stressful things that I have ever done.  I have been married, been an MC and have been a best man.  Giving a speech at your brothers wedding is definitely the one of the most nerve racking.  Not because there are no words or you can't think of stories.  It's stressful because there's so much love that you want to put into your words and you don't want to miss anything.  You want your brother and your new sister to know how much you love them, how proud you are and how happy you are for them.  I gushed a bit about Neal and Mary and hope that they know how special they both are to us.
Brian, Mary's Dad, gave an incredibly touching speech.  It was very heartfelt and moving.  It was more than evident how proud he is of Mary.  John stood by Brian and held a candle so that he could read.  I really enjoy the Jervis family.  It was great to get to know them more in this week.
Neal and Mary both gave a speech.  Both of them shed a tear and I'm pretty sure there were no dry eyes in the tent.
It was a moving and wonderful day.  I wish you both the best now and always.  Hope to see you soon.

Floddy
Grrrrr 
Happy
Taxi tractor
Reception
Cupcakes nom nom
Happy couple
John did a great job




Oh and I also have to mention that Reggie and his new wife, Kgomotso, also attended Neal and Marys wedding.  Reggie is one of my oldest and best friends.  He's also one of those guys whom I love but do not get to see nearly enough!  Was great to catch up!

Reg and Kgomotso
Reg is a good friend
And dancer :)
:)
And that was pretty much that.  We had delicious cupcakes and crème brûlée.  We partied and drank coffee and danced and had a wonderful time.
The party shut down at 12.  Shuttles where waiting so that nobody had to drive.
We said our goodbyes to Neal and Mary and other new and old friends.
The next morning we said goodbye to my parents, aunt and uncle and left Franschoek to Cape Town airport and then to Port Elizabeth.
We'd had and continued to have a wonderful holiday.

We arrived in Port Elizabeth to find Juan standing at the airport with a picture of a Canadian flag and our names.  Much like the people who wait for travelers to take you to your hotel or on some expedition or tour.
We stayed with Juan for 2 nights.  We have a few friends in PE and knew that we would not be able to see all of them.  We miss you guys and hopefully will be able to catch up with you next year.
We affectionately refer to Juan's house as Hotel Hammond as he always goes the extra mile to make us feel happy and content.  He has a sharp wit and is a very interesting guy.  We both have a soft spot for Juan.
Juan has bought a new house in Port Elizabeth since we last saw him.  Hotel hammond now has a fantastic balcony with great views of a valley and the sea.
Juan treated us to some great food, drinks and it was great to sit on the balcony and catch up.
Hotel Hammond is even equipped with it's own dassie, Freud, who frequents the potplants at the end of the balcony.  Somehow there is often Muesli that seems to find it's way into the pots? Adele even tried to make Juan take the neighbourhood stray cat in but he withstood all the pressure. 
On our first night we had the most delicious dinner on Stanley street for Nick's birthday.  Juan and Nick are regulars.  I think we ate at Bahai restaurant and I can't remember what we ate, but remember it being delicious.
The next night Juan had a risotto night at his house.  Had delicious risotto and homemade icecream.  We also got to see Melissa and Sruti.
I was great fun chatting, eating and watching the sun set from Hotel Hammond.
The next day we had a long walk on the beach and ice-cream on the pier.
I really like PE.  Adele and I have so many good memories of this place and it feels comfortable
It was really good to see Juan, Nick, Melissa and Sruti.  Sad that we did not see Anesh and Gladwyn and a few others but .....next time.
Juan really knows how to spoil us.  One of the most amazing things was that he was on study leave for his primaries in internal medicine but he maybe did 2 hours of studying.  He was kind enough to give us his time and still managed to pass his exam.
Thanks and well done Juan. Denny Crane!!!!  You know that they do speak French in Canada.  Just saying!!!

PE 
Juan, Sruti, Adele, Me
The next morning Ma en Pa picked us up.  It had been a long while since we had seen Adele's parents and we were both really excited.  Adele was almost skipping with joy.
We met them at the Wimpy and after saying our hellos to them and our sad goodbyes to Juan, we did some shopping in Macro and some catching up.
Ma en Pa live in inland South Africa – in a town called Kathu which is close to Upington.  They have recently purchased a house near Kenton at Canon rocks.  This will be their retirement home in a few years.  It's a lekker spot and we were happy to be visiting with them.
We had a really nice drive up the coast.  South Africa is truly a beautiful country.  It was really good to catch up and see each other.

We arrived at their house and got a tour of the town and of their house.
We had lunch in Kenton at a pizzeria on the beach.  The restaurant is called Lucca pizzeria and they have delicious pizzas and fantastic views.  
Their house is literally right on the beach.  They have 4 garages (recently built), so that Pa can have space to do handy work, tinker and prepare for fishing.  Between the double garage they have a walkway going up to some stairs which lead to the house.  They have a stone braai in the back.
The house itself is the perfect beach house.  It is that perfect combination of relaxed and smart.
They have an open plan kitchen, dining room, living room and the house has 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms.  There is also another outside room with an attached bathroom. I hope that I do it justice.  It is a wonderful house.
The house itself is decorated with whites and blues and seaside ships and knots and other decorative odds and ends.
I also mustn't forget the bar which sport a picture of a younger Pa looking buff with a bad-ass big-ass fish.
We had a wonderful week in Canon rocks.
We barbecued/braaied a lot.  Adele's Dad makes the most delicious meat and her Mom has the most amazing potato salad recipe.  They also made a biltong potjie and many other homemade tasties that we'd requested or that they knew we liked.  Famous mac and cheese, patties, pizza, pancakes and bobotie was on the menu (I've literally just finished my lunch and I'm starting to feel hungry taking about all this good food!!!).
Often we'd eat dinner in the diningroom looking out over the sea, beer in hand, smile on face.
Most mornings Pa and myself got up early and went fishing.  We didn't have much luck on the fish front however being on the beach with Pa, watching the sun rise, listening to the swell and break of the sea and smelling that wonderful fresh, salty smell was wonderful.
We fished a few afternoons as well.  Fished in the rain and in the wind.  Was great to be by the sea.
Adele's Dad loves fishing and it is always nice to get yourself caught up in someone else's passion and enthusiasm.
Now, Ma and PA have only been down to Canon rocks a few times but already have a group of friends they visit with and spend time with.  We visited a few of these friends.  
The wife of one couple, who have children all over the world, treated us to coffee and biscuits one afternoon.  We also went with them to the fish river sun and had an amazing buffet breakfast.  We sat in the hotel looking out over a beautiful golf course and sea views, all framed by a great, big wild fig tree.  It was a fantastic feast with everyone having their favorites.  Ice cream for breakfast is always a winner.  Adele's Dad tried to convince everyone to stay for 4ths and then lunch but we left happy and full.
On another day we went to East London to visit Adele's grandma and do some shopping.  I had gastro and was a bit useless this day.  I missed out on Wimpy and calamari at ocean basket – both of which I'd been craving.
Adele's grandmother is getting on in age.  It is always special for Adele to see her and I think she appreciated the visit.  I think it's also a little sad for Adele to see her grandma getting older.
Another night Adele's parents had other friends over and we braaied and joked and talked about South Africa and Canada.
I really do miss wood braais, gas is great but nothing beats the smell and warmth from a wood fire.  

Another interesting character in Kenton is a retired widower and ex army man.  He's reputed to be the best fisherman in the area and fishes almost every day.  His walls are lined with pictures of his fish, sailing knots and other trophies.  He knows the coast better than anyone else and rarely shares his secrets - except with Pa.  Pa and him seem to have gotten on very well and he's always willing to share some advise on bait, times to fish and where to fish.
So we had a week of socializing, relaxing, reading and seas and sand.
We enjoyed fantastic food, good beer, brandy and cokes (nom nom) and amazing scenery and sea views.
We went on daily walks on beaches and through seaside forests.
On one day there was a spectacular storm at sea and we stood behind the glass and watched as the lightning lit up the sky for as far as we could see.
We were definitely not lucky with the fish but were blessed in every other way.  Was a great holiday.

Pa
Ma
Their view
Fishing with Pa
Baiting
What a view
Ouma
Ma and Pa's retirement home 
Boknes coast
East coast unset
Now if you've gotten this far then you get some mad respect y'all.  There's still so much to tell but I'm going to have to cut down the detail.  I hope that the above has done the holiday so far justice.

From East London we were driven back up to PE, said some more heartfelt goodbyes and then flew to JHB.

In JHB we stayed with a few friends.  Again, we missed a few – will have to catch up next time.
We stayed with Elana and Mirella in Pretoria.  They treated us to a delicious supper and breakfast.  They are 2 of the most interesting people that we know and Adele has a long and happy history with Mirella.  They are hopefully planning to visit us sometime soon. Every time Adele sees poppy's (the flower) she makes me take a photo of them and then tags Mirella.
We also stayed with Herrie and Elize.  They live on a lifestyle estate between Johannesburg and Pretoria.  They have a beautiful house, are fantastic people and know how to enjoy good food and good booze.  Had a wonderful night eating, drinking and catching up. Elize is a registrar in Haematology and we are so very proud of her. Herrie is getting his Range Rover in December and  Adele is green with envy. 
One of the big reasons that we booked our holiday the way we did was to go to Nic and Claire's wedding.  Nic is one of my oldest and best friends.  He is a brother.  He is one of those people it's easy to be yourself and have fun with. 
We got to spend a night with them and got to spend time with them on their bachelors and bachelorette.  We got to meet their new dog, Molly – rock star -  and had a great time with them.
We spent one morning helping them set up their venue, went on an afternoon walk and got to spend time with 2 of our favorite people. We were lucky enough that they came to visit us in Canada July of 2011. 
It was really good to be involved in the wedding and to be one of the groomsmen.
Was also lucky enough to see one of my other favorite people, Mark at the beginning of his stag, unfortunately we could not be at their beautiful wedding a week later.
Nic and Claire's wedding was at Parktown girls high school.  We helped decorate the hall which had rows and rows of homemade decorations on the sealing.
The wedding itself was outside under large oak trees (I stand corrected Claire).  It really was a magical day and a great wedding.  They have wonderful friends and my parents also attended which was awesome.
Nic's little brother gave one of the most heartfelt speeches that I have ever heard.  It was a great day.
After the wedding we played touch rugby ( I sucked) and relaxed with drinks on the grass and under the trees. A true picnic under the trees.
Got to spend time with Nic and Claire, my parents, Nic and Claire's family, Mark and Dhivedja.
Nic and Claire planned their wedding so that we could attend in the time that we came to SA which was super special.  Love you guys.  So happy that you are about to embark on a new and wonderful adventure.
Unfortunately I did not take a lot of pictures in JHB, I think that by this stage I was a bit tired of picture taking.  Here are a few stollen shots.

Nic
Claire
Handsome pair 




We could not make it to Mark and Dhivedja's wedding but have seen the pictures and it looked awesome. Thanks to my mom who sent us the You magazine featuring their wedding. 

Mark and Dhivedja - stolen photo
And that was essentially the end of our SA trip.  We had a last supper with my parents and the MacCleods.  Spent our last day doing some shopping and spending time with mom and dad.
We flew back to Canada tired and happy.  We got to see a lot of our favorite people and thank you guys for making our trip so special.

Steve, Jess and Kaitlyn drove all the way from Lethbridge to pick us up at the CGY airport. This definitely made our arrival in Canada much easier. We left the people and country we love to arrive  in another country, to more people we love.

The first few weeks back from South Africa were brutal.  We were jet lagged, tired and had a lot of work to catch up on.  Duncan was also on leave which made getting back to work a bit harder as I was covering his results.  We have done a lot since being back.  Again, not going to do it justice so here is some of what has happened between now and then.

We went to Chilliwack to visit with Jess and Steve and Kaitlyn.  Very happy to have made such good friends here.They treated us to a wonderful holiday.  We enjoyed ice cream, a river hike, a hike to a waterfall, wonderful food, humming birds and lamas.  A lot of the wildlife was seen on Jess's parents farm  and they were great company.  On one day we met Steve's sister and their kids – had a wonderful time with them too and playing hide and seek. We played games and laughed and drank wine and had a wonderful time.We bird watched and really enjoyed Chilliwack – great place to live.  We also got to see Marc and Kylie and Ty and their new baby son who made us a delicious breakfast.
Chilliwack really is a beautiful place and Jess and Steve did a great job of promoting their town.  It would be great to be in the same town as them again sometime but we will see what the future holds. British Columbia is very beautiful.  The trees, mountains, lake and rivers make it one of the most beautiful places that I have ever visited.

Breakfast at Marc and Kylie's
Kuitlyn
Marc and Ty
Walking in Chilliwack
Walk to Angel falls
Steve and his niece 
Angel falls
Cheers 
Lama hunting in the rain
A few weeks before we had a delicious Easter dinner with Jess and Steve.  This was before they left for Chilliwack.On the same weekend we had easter Lunch with Pete and Bettie.  They always invite people from the University and others who do not have family to spend Easter with.  Both were absolute feasts, very festive and we got to spend Easter with kind and loving people.  It made being away from family a little easier.

I have been writing a few exams in Canada.  They are not exams that I have to write but open many doors if I do.  We went to Ottawa so that I could do the MCCQE2.  I was probably not prepared enough but the exam went well and I passed – yah! Only found out 6 weeks after (Was a stressful 6 weeks) 
We met up with our friends Jenni and Frans in Ottawa.  Jess had recommended a few places and we enjoyed great restaurants, brew pubs and corner cafes.
Adele and I did a lot of walking through this pretty capital.  
We went to the war museum which was fantastic!!! and enjoyed the old and new parts of Ottawa.
We walked the Rideu canal and plan to come back when it is frozen over this Winter.
We enjoyed the Byward market with it's colors, flowers, restaurants and curio shops.  The weather was perfect and there was a lot of sitting outside and enjoying the pavement culture.
We were also there during the tulip festival.  Every year they plant millions of tulips and people come from all over the world to see them – very pretty.
The Parliament here is a handsome set of buildings.  Unfortunately we did not go in because the Spanish Prime minister was there that day but we enjoyed the view and history. Adele had a  mini Canadian flag that she waved around.
We did a bus tour which explained more of the city's French and English history and important land marks.
We highly enjoyed the national arts museum with it's giant spider statue in front of it. This is in memory of the artist's mother (the artist's mother was a weaver.  The spider eggs represent fertility and her children).  During our tour we saw one of the (+- 70 year old) artists, Arnaud Maggs, smooching indecently in the lobby of his exhibition with his ? 70 year old girlfriend - interesting!  
Really enjoyed a muscle car covered in black paint and with the verses of revelations written on it – a new take on the 4 horsemen of the apocalypse.  It was a good museum.
Highly enjoyed Ottawa, the culture, food, beavertails, statues and memorials.  Definitely a place we'd like to revisit.

Ottawa museum of art
What the four horsemen would be driving in modern times - revelations scripture on the side of the car
A  pretty flower 
Parliament
Bus tour
Poppies and Parliament

Jenni and Frans 
Poppies 
Poppies 
Poppies
Best milkshake ever
On another weekend we went curling with the Galbraith's.  This was our first time playing this interesting sport.  It was a lot harder than it looked and we had fun falling about.
Muscles pretty stiff the next day and knees bruised.

Curling club 
Curling  is

painful


As I've already alluded to.  Jess and Steve left Lethbrige for Chilliwack. We tried to spend a lot of time with them before they left.  We had a few dinners with them.  Through them we have met Conner and Shawna – 2 awesome Canadians living in Calgary.  Had a fun night with the 4 of them.

Another fun night was Elton John coming to Lethbridge.  Why Elton John would come to Lethbridge?  In any event he was fantastic.  Our neighbors had organized great seats and the Brit was excellent.  Hopefully this marks the start of more concerts in Lethbridge.

Elton John

Duncan and Chantal have left Lethbridge which is more than a little sad.  Has been fun working with one of my best friends.  They live in Calgary now and plan to spend time up there with them.
We are very lucky to have them down this weekend.

Have had dinner and spent time with Justin and Kendra, and the Van der Pohl's.  We definitely have a larger support base here now and it is awesome.

Have had a bit of fun dog sitting Lowell and Julie's dog and then Justin and Kendra's dog.
Lowell and Julie's dog, Kumeu, enticed Bagel to go swimming with him.  This was when we went down to Indian Battlefield and had a lekker Braai with Mark and Michael.
Justin and Kendra's dog, Bud, chased Bagel up and down.  They played and played and played.
I think that Bagel thought he was in doggy heaven for a while.

Indian battlefield park 

Bagel can swim
That's hilarious Bagel 
Alberta sunset
Mark and Michael have arrived from South Africa.  They've actually been here for almost 4 months now.  Mark started work last week after an assessment period.
They have been great travel buddies, friends and are really 2 great guys.
Before Duncs and Chan left we had a memorable evening at Plum together.
Other than that we've been to the interesting Buffalo smashed in head jump.  An interpretive centre built around the remains of an old Native hunting ground where they would herd and run buffalo off a cliff.  Layers and layers of bone have been uncovered.  Very interesting.
Our alcohol tolerance also went up a bit with Mark and Michael here.  Had a few gatherings with Robbie, Lindsay, Adam, Candace , Vicky and Brad too,  I actually felt a bit embarrassed when we went to the bottle depot for recycling.
Had one very awesome night around the fire at Brad and Vicky's - Mark and Michael might have suffered a little the next day though.
It's been pretty fantastic to have these 2 guys around.  They are fun and very entertaining.  Glad to have been able to add you guys to our big Canadian family.
On another weekend we also went to Canmore with Mark and Michael and took Bagel on his first hotel outing – he did fantastically.
We went hiking, ate candy and giant gobstoppers in Nanton, went hiking to Grassi lakes, ate delicious meals at the iron goat and at the Grizzly paw.  A fun weekend
We've also been to Waterton with them, where Mark and Michael got their first taste of the Canadian outdoors.

Braai 


Canmore with flash
Canmore 
Canmore
Grrrrr

Gnassi lake hike


One memorable weekend included Mark, myself, Duncan, Brad and Robbie who took us to Waterton for a cycletrip.  On the way (Early Spring) it started to snow.  It was one of the most serene/hair raising/amazing experiences of my life to cycle downhill on single track through the snow.  Ate at Robbie's friend's restaurant (Zums) that night and returned – happy and tired.

Waterton cycle


Have spent a good amount of time with our neighbors.  Have had a few drinks around the firepit and took them out to supper one night.  One night it started to rain around the fire but it was a warm, wonderful rain and we sat, happily pickled and getting wet in the rain.  Must be becoming more Canadian eh?
Also watched street wheelers with them which is a big weekend in Lethbridge where people come to parade their fancy or redone cars down the main street and compete for other accolades as the weekend goes on.



We were also lucky enough to see Bryan Adams in Calgary.
We went up for a night and had dinner with Connor and Shawna.  They were kind enough to let us stay over – great people.
Bryan Adams was amazing – sang and sang and sang.  Brought back a lot of great memories.  Wonderful way to spend a night with my Adele.

Bryan Adams Calgary
As I've mentioned Duncs and Chan left Lethbridge.  We helped them move to Calgary and had a great time with a big group of friends.
Had a wonderful dinner at the wild rose brewery and stayed up very late chatting and talking it up.

Helping Duncs and Chan move to Calgary
No pictures of the Robbie burns evening but enjoyed an evening with the Meller's and the Longhair's and the McLuckie's.  Enjoyed the great company, Dave reciting poetry and some good Scotch.  Another great evening.
Terry and Dave were kind enough to take me on a fishing trip down the Elk river.  Did not catch anything but enjoyed the sun and nature and water.  They are really patient and kind to a pretty terrible fisherman.  

Terry
Dave
Dave and Terry

We had a week off with Jenni and Frans.  We met them in Disney world for a few days and then came back to Calgary for the stampede
The night before we flew out we had a wonderful meal with Duncan and Chan.  Chan baked Duncs and Adele a cake for their combined birthday.  Great to spend time with our peeps after they have left Lethbridge.

The birthday girls
It was hot, hot, hot in Orlando but we had a fantastic time.
We went to Tornado Lagoon and Universal studios where we enjoyed many rides – spider man, Jurrasic park, a water slide, the incredible hulk ride, the rip rocket, ET etc.  The rides were awesome.  On our first night we also went to blue man group which was a lot of fun and frikkin cool.

Our second day was Adele's birthday and we had ihop for the first time.  Enjoyed Sea World where we had an interesting behind the scenes tour and learnt a bit more about the park and met a few fishy friends.  We also did a few more rides and watched a few shows.
The best show was the Killer whale show.  Apparently it is a little tame after that unfortunate incident of someone getting eaten but was still great.  We “accidentally” sat in the soak zone and .... well ...... you know ..... got soaked down to our socks and underwear.
That night we played mini golf, went to an Italian restaurant for dinner.  Had desert at Hooters. Had a great day on my favorite person's special day.
The next day was the Kennedy space centre.  Frans is a rocket fan and was like a kid in a candy store.
They had a really cool rocket garden with different eras of rockets.  We got to see a real spaceship  - Atlantis - and got to see a left over Saturn V rocket.  
Also watched an imax movie on the hubble telescope and got to do a ride which simulated a launch – pretty cool.
They have an amazing hanger at Kennedy which is the largest single story building in the world.  Was awesome to share in Frans' enthusiasm. 

That night we had dinner at Sleuths.  Sleuths is a murder mystery dinner.  It was essentially a really fun (and delicious) dinner theatre where the audience had to guess who the murderer was.
On the 4th of July we had a great time collecting stamps around the world at Epcot.  We visited Morocco, Mexico, Britain, Canada, China, Italy, France, Germany and Norway.  We tried to have a drink or some food at each country.
Went on a few rides – soarin and a viking ship ride in Norway.
Enjoyed movies about France, China and Canada and watched a less than excellent animated show at the USA section of the park.
That night we watched 4th of July fireworks and a laser show.  Was a pretty spectacular evening.
On our last day we went to the magic Kingdom enjoyed the laughter and dancing and craziness of the magic kingdom.  It felt a little like stepping into a crazy wonderland.
Enjoyed a train ride around the park and the “it's a small world” ride.
That night we went to some of the outlet stores and shopped for discounts.  It's amazing how much cheaper clothes are in the States.  Frans was the big shopper with about 6 or 7 bags of clothes much to Jenni's amusement.

The next day we spent most of the day traveling and had dinner with Duncan and Chan in downtown Calgary.  Had an early night, ready for the stampede.
Woke up the next morning and had a delicious breakfast before heading to the Stampede on the C-train.  Enjoyed a great day trying deep fried cheesecake and snickers, or ice cream covered in bacon and maple syrup.
The stampede is like cowboy disney land and we had a great day checking out the displays, livestock, sheep shearing, shouting yee haa and watching the Chuckwagons and Rodeo.
The rodeo is always my highlight but the grandstand show was really good this year.  They had acrobats, contortionists, a famous singer (Paul Brandt), motorcycle stuntmen and all sorts of awesomeness (much better than last years).  At the end of the show they had the best fireworks display that I have ever witnessed.  Was FANTASTIC!!!!
That night Frans and I had a few drinks (watched a bar lady get spanked) and stumbled back a bit later than intended.  The stampede is definitely a must for anyone who likes fun.

Our last day with Jenni and Frans was a day trip to Lake Louise.  We caught the ski lift up to the observation centre and saw our first grizzly of the season. We also saw black bears next to the road. 
We had a tasty and scenic lunch at the Chateau overlooking Lake Louise and finished it off with a walk around part of the lake.
Jenni was particularly funny on the ski lift – she is a bit scared of heights and kept us in stitches. (She did well though :) )
That night we finished off our holiday with Connor and Shawna, Jenni and Frans and the 2 of us in the backyard of our bed and breakfast enjoying pizza, wine and cheesecake.  A fitting end to a great holiday.
Had a great holiday and was awesome to see Jenni and Frans.  Can't wait to see you guys again!

Universal studios 
Hogwarts
Seaworld



Spiderman ride

Adele with Jess and her invisibility cloak
Calgary stampede
Yee ha with Jenni and Frans
Kennedy space centre


Like a kid in a candy store 


Bagel 




Fireworks at Epcot

Magic Kingdom

Deep fried everything stampede
Lake Louise



Grandstand show
Terrifyingly funny



Chateau lake Louise

Mirella

In other news Adele and I activated our permanent residence when we came back from Orlando.
And our cards have just arrived.  Whoo hoo!
We are now officially permanent residents.  Another few years to get a passport if we choose.
I also got my results for MCCQE2 which I passed - yay!

Very recently we went with Jess and Steve and Kaitlyn to Osoyoos in British Columbia.
We started off the weekend in Chilliwack where we caught up and had a few laughs.
The next day we went to Osoyoos.  Osoyoos is very pretty but is Canada's warmest area with temperatures between 34 and 36 when we were there.  I think it's classified as desert.
There are a few lakes in the area and around these lakes there is lush, green vineyards and fruit.
We travelled between Osoyoos and Oliver and Penticton and Summerland.
We tasted wine at about 21 wineries and Adele and I bought 36 bottles of wine.
Had delicious meals at Burrowing owl, Hester Creek and Miradoro.
Jess describes Osoyoos as her disney land (or the happiest place on earth) and I'd agree that it is definitely up there.
The wine farms in Osoyoos, Oliver and Summerland are interesting because they are mainly small, there's a good chance you will not see their wine in a store outside British Columbia and each vineyard has a story or something interesting about it.  We met interesting people at the vineyards including people from Montreal, other parts of Canada, France, Portugal, Iran.  All trying to make a living in this wonderful part of the world and seemingly having fun. 
Had an amazing time with amazing friends.  Also got to see the coolest model train set I have ever seen and swim in Lake Osoyoos.
Kaitlyn has grown so big since the last time we saw her and she is gorgeous!  We are luckily seeing them again in December.
After our long weekend in Osoyoos we had dinner with Steve's family who are wonderful and made us feel really at home.  Great people and great times.

Girlie!

Church and state vineyard



Kraze legz vineyard


Dirty laundry vineyard





 Juan

 Disney world for a happy Jess
Kaitlyn after Adele fed her lunch

The last trip I'll mention here was our trip to Kimberly last weekend.
We had the most fantastic weekend with Mark and Michael.  We enjoyed the scenery, the downtown and Bavarian food in Kimberly.  We picnicked and swam in cold, clear water.  Then went to Creston and wine tasted in the next breath (the wine tasting was fantastic and completely unexpected which made it all the more enjoyable!).  Also enjoyed delicious Thai food in Creston.
The highlight of the trip for me was a drive along East Kootenay to Boswell.  We swam at a place called Mackie Park.  It was a hot and beautiful day and the water was warm and clear.  They had a slide on a float in the middle of the lake and Mark, Michael and I spent hours swimming and doing dives/flips off the float.
Was another great weekend in paradise.
Bagel's second big outing with us.

Wine tasting in Creston

Kootenay lake



So that pretty much puts us up to date.
Sorry again that this was so long.  I feel that I have done a lot of the trips an injustice and I'm sorry if I've left anything/anyone out.

This weekend we see Duncs and Chan.  We will probably hang out with our neighbors, Rick and Shawna, as well as Robbie and Lindsay, Carrie and Eric (Had almost forgot to mention Carrie and Eric – Carrie is another South African doc and her fiance, Eric, is Swiss/Canadian.  Have had a braai with them and lunch with Carrie.  They, too, are wonderful people and we look forward to spending more time with them).
Adele and I are really good.  A little tired and frantic at times but we seem to like to work hard and play hard.  We have some pretty big life decisions to make but it's much easier knowing that you are making them with the love of your life.

Bagel is requesting a walk and I'd like to go kiss the prettiest girl I know so adios for now.

Love you until the next time

Ryan and Adele

And that was supposed to be the end but have to mention the last weekend.
Had a wonderful weekend with Duncs and Chan, Mark and Michael, Robbie and Lindsay, Adam and Candace, the Kings, and Carrie and Eric.
On Friday we went to Plum and had delicious eats followed by drinks with Robbie and Linds, Mark and Michael, Duncs and Chan.
Saturday was a chilled morning – helped Robbie a bit with some scrap removal from his garden, had lunch with Duncs, Chan and Robbie.  Had a super duper salmon braai on cedar wood planks and grilled veg barbecue with everyone mentioned above followed by drinks around the fire.
Was another great night and we are very lucky to have some good friends :)
Sunday was chilled.  Sad to say goodbye to Duncs and Chan – will miss them until the next time.
Spent some time helping Robbie again and then chilled with my lovely wife.

Michael
Chan 
Lindsay
Candace 
Brad
Logan
Marissa

Rick
Robbie and Lindsay
Carrie
Eric 



Shawna
Life is good, this blog is long and if you've read it all then you deserve a medal or some space in the loonie bin.
Love you again

Ryan and Adele

And that was really supposed to be the end but have just had a wonderful lunch with Marc, Kylie, Ty, Zeke, Frazer, Julie, Betty and Pete.  Wonderful family!  Thanks for having us. Just thought I'd say :)

Goodbye for real this time